I want more sweet, romantic things. Not just ?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and in the first few weeks or so he was the sweetest guy in the world. I woke up in the morning with sunflowers (my fav) laying next to me in his spot. It made my day wonderful. And I came back to AZ from visiting family in SD, CA for 3 days and walk in the room and a candle is lit and roses are on the desk. He always used to hold my hand, rub my back kiss me pionately... And the last 2 months (since we moved to Wisconsin with his family) I haven't gotten much of anything but . Sometimes he writes down a huge list of things and hands it to me cuz I think he's too shy to say it to me.. Like how he feels about me and such, but ill never catch him saying it in person. We never hold hands anymore, if I want a hug or a kiss I have to do it or ask for it, and even then he sometimes seems like he doesn't wanna do it. He used to put his hand on my thigh or hold my hand every time we got in a car no matter the distance. Now it's nothing. One day we even went all day without hugging or kissing.... Every time I tell him about it or talk to him about it he says he doesn't like being clingy... Even though before we started dating he told me he likes to be clingy and he's the kinda guy that wants to cuddle 24/7... Was that just to get me to go out with him? And what do I do if I want him to actually hold my hand, not ME hold HIS? And we usually end up sleeping together every night or every other night.... What is it??